Listened to this mind blowing message and discovered that many young people just exist without doing something deliberate about planning their future. Too many excuses put people in one position. A man who cannot plan has nothing to live for because life places a demand on you to plan. If you have a purpose to pursue, it becomes natural upon your responsiblity to... plan.
Theses are the 20 things you should do before you clock 30
1.Discover yourself. It is discovery that enlists you for life,not necessarily birth. You can be born but you are useless until you discover yourself. Its not about wealth. You can be wealthy but not great. The greatest thing that can happen to you is self discovery.
2.You must have learnt how to use your giftings to solve problems definitely.Your purpose has the capacity of employing for life. Men of purpose are always tired because there is always something to do with something that they have.
3.You must have caught some ideas on how to make Money. Some of you have wacked mentality on what money is. The fact there is fake paracetamol doesn't mean all paracetamols are fake. If you are a book writer,makeup artist, blogger etc,know how to channel your work professionally. You make money from people's ignorance either genuinely or cunningly.
4.You must have known the definition of love. Many young men and ladies have a misconception of what love is.Love isn't looking enchanting,seductive or 'sexy'. You cannot love someone you met at the first time.You can like him/her or be attracted. Love doesn't stop at emotions. Love is a choice.Love is a responsibility. Its much more about giving. Sex is worth waiting for. If you are a lady,do not get married to man that cannot control his 'below the belt faculty'. If a man loves you,he can wait for you. He will make himself deserve you. You are not an emotional dumping ground and not a dustbin for someone's emotional errors.
5.You must have read atleast thirty books. Have a library. Invest in Books. If your future is important to you,you become more serious about the benchmarks you set. Before you get married,ask your spouse if he/
6.You should have a pastor. There is something about a pastoral covering. Many Christians do not know the role of a spiritual covering over your life. Jer 3:15-16
7.You should be known for something. Great men are not known for everything. They are known for specifics.
8.You should have a Mentor. People you can keep correspondence with. Don't be emotional about choosing a mentor because instead of being mentored,you fall in love. Have a vison and a focus.
9.You must learn how to say NO. That's one of the signs of maturity. Saying No without feeling guilty.
10.You must have conquered procrastination. Some of you have great ideas,dreams,potentials but have never achieved them. Procrastination is a lazy man's apology.
11.You should be free to use your mind. If your life is not going well, check who has been doing the thinking for you. Avoid pressures from family,friends and T.V.
12.You must have a Bank Account. Before you get married, ask your spouse if he has a bank account.
13.You should have an investment. One of the cheapest we all can have is buying shares.
14.You must have developed stability of character. You should be taken for your words. Avoid inconsistency. When will you be believed? Say what you mean and mean what you say. Put your self under self-control.
15.You should be able to choose your friends by yourself.
16.Learn professional dining etiquettes. Learn to nake use of cutleries well. Hygiene matters as well. Please learn to take good care of your self from your mouth to your poise. EVERYTHING!.
17.You should know how to drive a Car.
18.Write your vision statement in a sentence. Know your vision.
19.You must have the financial ability to feed someone else.
20.You must be Born Again. You should know how to love God-the ever Living and Omnipotent God. The one who is everly faithful even in your unfaithfulness. The One who blessed mankind witht he greatest gift. He sent His Son Jesus Christ to die that we shall have everlasting life
We are about entering a New Year. i wish you the very best as you begin a new life in Christ Jesus.
God bless you.
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DeleteSo touching. You know the problem with goals isn't setting them, but how well to accomplish them. I refuse to walk into 2015 with unaccomplished goals. Mya God continue to enlighten you.
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